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Ellen McFaul was a patient spectator, and an infinitely tolerant
young woman, ebulliently optimistic regarding just about any
harebrained scheme Tom thought up, or that I would push him
into.
When we started the band, Tom and Ellen had been married less
than a year, and Tom was headed for graduate school, an advanced
degree in ethnomusicology, and a job in which his most often
asked question would be, ``Would you like fries with that?'' To
pursue the rock and roll dream they both had to put all
that on the line. I will brag about being personally cognizant
of the fact that our plans would affect both their lives, and
that it could put a significant strain on their marriage. One
day that first summer Tom and I had a heart-to-heart about it,
and he assured me Ellen was definitely ``in.'' And she was. Good
old Ellen.
We all experienced some hard times in the years that
followed, but we all survived and ultimately did well in life. I
would never ask any of the people who were a part of my band --
either the players or their wimmenfolk -- whether they would do
it over again. I don't need to ask, because I know what the
answer would be, and I prefer to live in denial.